Powerful Self-Love Spell Jar Recipe and Ingredients for 2024

Last Updated on February 26, 2024 by Eva Maria

Self-love is an important component of life that leads to overall happiness and satisfaction.

By making a self-love spell jar you can bring more attention to your well-being and start to manifest the life that you truly want.

In this article, I would like to share with you how to create a Self-Love Spell Jar that will help you feel more empowered and happy with who you are. 

Self-love is an act of valuing your own happiness and well-being.

It is based on self-acceptance, unconditional support, caring, compassion, meeting personal needs, and viewing yourself as worthy, good, valuable, and deserving of love and happiness.

For many years I have struggled with accepting myself and becoming more compassionate towards myself.

Now, I follow some healthy daily habits, take care of myself, and give myself compliments to see the beauty and value that I hold within me.

And most of all, I keep the Self-Love an important part of my life.

And you can too, with this Self-Love Spell Jar!

Focusing on Self-Love Intention

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The best timing for Self-Love Spell Jar

To bring more self-love, compassion, and acceptance make this Self-Love Spell Jar during the waxing moon (from New Moon to Full Moon), on Friday or Monday, during the hour of Venus.

To check when the Venus Hour is, use this online Planetary Hours calculator and insert your town and timezone.

Step 1. Prepare Self-Love Spell Jar Ingredients: 

To create a self-love spell jar, you will need the following ingredients:

  1. A Jar: Select a clean jar that you feel a connection with. It can be a small mason jar, a decorative glass jar, or any other container that resonates with you.
  2. Rose Quartz: This is my go-to love and compassion crystal. It can help open the heart chakra and promote self-love. You can also choose another one from the list of Crystals for Love.
  3. Dried Herbs: The herbs that I chose for my self-love spell jar are rose petals, lavender, and chamomile, which are known for their calming and self-love-enhancing properties. You can also pick other love herbs from the Love Herbs list below.
  4. Pink Himalayan Salt: To keep your intention pure and… pink.
  5. A piece of Hair or Nail Clipping: This will make the Self-Love Spell Jar very unique and personal to you.
  6. Honey or Sweetener: Honey is often used in love magic and can be added to sweeten your self-love intentions. You can use another vegan-friendly sweetener such as sugar, agave syrup, dates, raisins, etc.
  7. Paper and Pen: Prepare a torn (not cut) small piece of parchment paper and a pink pen. We are going to write down affirmations or self-love intentions to place in the jar.
  8. Candle and Lighter: A pink or red candle can be used to seal the jar with love and positive energy.
Self-Love Spell Jar

Step 2. Create a Sacred Space by Cleansing and Casting the Circle

For the success of your Self-Love Spell Jar, I recommend cleansing the space, your aura, and all the ingredients. You can do this for example by using a smoke from incense.

To learn more about Spiritual Cleansing, I recommend you to check this book of Shadows Pages.

The next step is to open a magic circle. You can do it in various methods such as visualization or invoking the quarters.

Learn more about Circle Casting in this article.

Step 3. Focus on Self-Love and Write an Affirmation

Invoke the feelings of love and compassion towards yourself.

Thank yourself for showing up every day.

Be grateful for this beautiful body you have and the ability to experience the wonders of this world.

Appreciate the life, with all its shades and colors.

Now, full of these positive emotions, write your affirmation on a piece of parchment paper with a pink pen.

Self-Love Affirmations

You can write one affirmation or use as many as you feel called to.

Here are some examples of powerful self-love affirmations.

  • “I am deserving of love and embrace it in abundance.”
  • “I love and accept myself as I am.”
  • “I radiate self-love, and it attracts positivity into my life.”
  • “I am a unique and valuable individual, worthy of all the love life has to offer.”
  • “My heart is open, and I am ready to receive and give love freely.”
  • “I treat myself with kindness and prioritize my well-being.”
  • “I am a magnet for love, and it flows effortlessly into my life.”
  • “I choose to see the beauty in myself and others.”
  • “I am enough, just as I am, and I deserve love and happiness.”
  • “My self-love is a powerful force that empowers me to live authentically.”
  • “Every day, I grow more in love with the person I am becoming.”
  • “I honor my needs and prioritize self-care as an expression of self-love.”
  • “I forgive myself for past mistakes and choose to love and nurture my present self.”
  • “My self-love is a beacon that attracts positive and fulfilling relationships.”
Self-Love Spell Jar Ingredients - Rose quartz

Step 4. Place all Self-Love Spell Jar Ingredients in a Jar

Place all the prepared ingredients in a small jar.

You can start by putting some pink Himalayan salt in the bottom, and then adding dried rose petals, chamomile, and lavender.

Next place add the rose quartz and your hair.

Roll the little piece of paper with your affirmation and place it in the middle of a jar.

At the end add your sweetener, and invoke sweet feelings towards yourself.

Now your Self-Love Spell Jar is ready for the next step.

Self-Love Spell Jar Ingredients - Rose petals

Step 5. Seal the Self-Love Spell Jar with a Pink Candle

Visualize the loving pink light surrounding you and pick up the candle with your dominant hand.

Light the candle and start dripping the wax on the lid of a jar to seal it.

I like to place some paper underneath to catch the dripping wax (to avoid making waxy mess).

Whenever you feel that all the positive and loving intention is sealed in your spell jar, you can leave it to cool down.

Your Self-Love Spell Jar is now finished and you can close the magic circle.

Self-Love Spell Jar Ingredients - pink candle


List of Love Herbs:

Allspice, Apple, Ash, Avocado, Basil, Bergamot, Cacao, Calendula, Cardamom, Carnation, Cayenne, Chamomile, Cherry, Cilantro, Cinnamon, Clove, Coriander, Cornflower, Cumin, Cyclamen, Daffodil, Daisy, Damiana, Dill, Dittany of Crete, Dog Rose, Dragon’s Blood, Fern, Forget-me-not, Gardenia, Ginger, Ginseng, Green Tea, Hawthorn, Hibiscus, Holly, Jasmine, Juniper, Lavender, Lemon Balm, Licorice, Lilac, Lily, Lime, Lobelia, Lovage, Mango, Maple, Marjoram, Mint, Mistletoe, Monstera, Myrtle, Nutmeg, Orange, Orchid, Orris root, Palmarosa, Parsley, Passionflower, Pennyroyal, Poppy, Primrose, Raspberry, Rhubarb, Rose, Rosemary, Saffron, Sandalwood, St. John’s Wort, Sweet Pea, Thyme, Tonka Bean, Tulip, Turmeric, Valerian, Verbena, Violet, Willow, Witch Hazel, Yarrow, Yellow Mustard Seed

List of Love Crystals

Amber, Beryl, Calcite, Carnelian, Chrysocolla, Chrysoprase, Danburite, Emerald, Girasol Quartz, Idocrase, Jade, Kunzite, Lapis Lazuli, Lepidolite, Mangano Calcite, Moonstone, Morganite, Peach Moonstone, Pearl, Peridot (Olivine), Pink Fluorite, Pink Tourmaline, Rhodochrosite, Rhodonite, Rose Quartz, Ruby, Sapphire, Sard, Seraphinite, Topaz, Turquoise, Unakite

Self-Love Spell Jar Ingredients and recipe

What to do with the Self-Love Spell Jar?

I like to keep my spell jars in sacred places.

Sometimes I would include them in my altar, and other times place them next to the bedside.

With Self-Love Spell Jar I think it’s nice to keep it either by your bed (as a reminder to give yourself some love each evening), in front of the mirror you use for beauty rituals (in the bathroom, or another room), or keep the spell jar in a purse to have it with you at all times when you out.

To strengthen the magic of your spell jar, you can meditate with it (for example every Friday) and focus your intention on self-love and self-compassion.

If you have any questions regarding making your own spells, let me know in the comments, and I will do my best to address them and write the content that is helpful to you.

Would you like to learn more about the love intention? Check out this Book of Shadows / Grimoire Bundle:

Eva Maria
Eva Maria

Eclectic Witch with tons of interests (Buddhism, Yoga, Ayurveda, Alchemy, Naturopathy, Aromatherapy, Herbalism, Climbing, Traveling, Jewelry making, Crocheting, Arts and Crafts and all sorts of readings).

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